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      <image:caption>Tools Not Rules™ is an approach to working with students that allows true transformation by using common language, creating shame-free interactions, and coaching towards serious, assertive, and working.  Tools Not Rules™ increases student engagement and achievement, while decreasing teacher stress.  Tools Not Rules™ IS… A pledge to your students that you will help them grow - emotionally, socially, and academically. A connection strategy that builds trust, honesty, and space to make different choices. A pathway that creates change for both the teacher and the student.</image:caption>
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